YOU UNDER HIM:

 Chicken Soup of the Sack
Most couples' main sex selection is the man-on-top missionary position. Often this oldie-but-goodie gets a "been there, done that" bum rap. Yet, there's a reason why Tara Rowalski, 25, a teacher in New York City, craves it often. "I just need to feel close to my boyfriend," she says. "I get a special connected feeling when our bodies are pressed together; it's a safe and loving pleasure position." Think of it as the comfort food of the bedroom.
And there's a reason it feels so effortless. "Our bodies just fit well that way," says Hooper. Other physical rewards to this coupling classic: nonstop kissing, touching, and eye-gazing. "It's like a whole body massage - inside and out," explains Hooper. "I love to feel every inch of my girlfriend's body," says Thomas Golan, a 23-year-old sound technician in Chicago. "I can feel everything from her neck to her breasts to her toes - it's extremely erotic."
And don't mistake: Just because the missionary is ordinary doesn't mean that it can't be extraordinary. Put some swivel in your hips as he plunges in and out. "That way you can be an active participant, taking sexual control of your vaginal sensations while you're on the bottom instead of just receiving what he gives," she says.
The downside of the missionary: Some women have trouble climaxing because the clitoris just doesn't get hit in the tried-and-true fit. Which brings us to...

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