Sex, Orgasm and Female Masturbation

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By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist

It seems that women of todays are getting determined by the day to reach out their happiness, wherever it might be. For them professional success isn’t sufficient neither be a good mother and reliable wife. They want that and much more. Such quest renders women rather concern towards sexual satisfaction as well.
There can be said that the orgasm, in women, it’s the foremost sexual heighten through which occur spasms and reflex muscle contractions in the vagina. As for men, being such contractions or spasms followed by ejaculation.
Orgasm itself is just o­ne out of four phases of the human sexual response, biologically called as the phase of desire, phase of arousal-described above and phase of relaxation or resolution (system returns to basal conditions).
According to specialists, the number of women seeking aid to solve problems in the sexual sphere grows at such fast rate, and o­ne of the main complaints is Anorgasmia (absence or difficulty in reaching orgasm). Therein appear some discrepancies. There are women who never reach orgasm. Though, there are others, who never reach orgasm by penetrative sex alone, however managed reaching it alongside masturbation.
There are those with difficulty (take too long) in reaching orgasm. And yet, there’s who believes never had orgasm because never “heard bells”, “saw stars”, ‘felt like fluctuating”, and other old wives’ tales. There can be said that the last o­nes are subjective descriptions, romantic, personal, so highly varied, which translate a self-perception of sexual pleasure. There implies in saying that the human system is also a subjective perception, being alike o­nly in a biological standpoint. Therefore, if some of the so far described situations concerns to you, knowingly that you’re not the o­nly o­ne, and certainly not alone.
Many are the women who display this kind of problem in sexuality. Several are the women who gone through and still will by the very same difficulty. The first step is to seek out professional help (doctors, psychologists, sexual therapists). It’s down to the health professional to inform in a reliable manner regarding female sexuality and that complies, describing as well as demystifying the orgasm. Working o­n self-esteem build up, reclaiming personal confidence and thus sexual drive.
Tips o­n the female orgasm:
- Masturbation helps. To acknowledge own bodily functions is corner stones.
- A perfect body figure isn’t orgasm warranty. Nothing compares to the capacity of yielding and complicity of a couple.
- Stress along with unhealthy habits such as smoking, disrupter of sleeping patterns, eating habits, sedentary, all of which affect sexual performance.
- The use of legal and illegal drugs can be detrimental to libido.
- Orgasms (oral, masturbation) with no penetration are just as good.
-Faking orgasm gets in the way. Even though, there might prevent frustration, you o­nly post pone solution making to your problem. The same goes to partner swapping if the problem is she.
- Books, sites as this o­ne, movies (mainly erotica) help women getting in the mood of erotic games or sex acts if you will, utterly necessary for orgasm heightening.