Why Women Fake Orgasm?

Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is that true? The majority of women have faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that? There are many reasons and the case is that there's no one to blame.

The most common are two reasons: they don't want to make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say that their partners are not satisfied until the girls feels orgasm, there's only one way to make them feel happy and stop the exhausting procedure - fake.

Another reason is that a typical female doesn't seek for orgasm; she desires a sexual relationship only because she wants intimacy. Still, such an attitude may make her partner feel bad. The only way out is to fake it out.

Some women never really experience orgasm while making sex, but they want their partner to feel good about himself and her. Men usually expect women to have pleasure, that's why females have no other choice. They have to fake to have a good relationship.

Loss of interest, having sex only because the partner wants to, also makes women to fake. Most females talk to their friends about such things and while they know other women act it, they do so too, because it's an easier way to have a good relationship.

When a man tries very hard, sometimes even too hard to make his woman have an orgasm, the woman usually finds it better to fake it than to disappoint her partner once again. They fear rejection if a man wouldn't understand her, they don't want to offend men because the absence of an orgasm is actually not their fault.

Some women may have health problems. If, while experiencing she becomes too sensitive and wants to stop, she fakes an orgasm in order to stop and relax. Orgasm may also cause discomfort and pain; that's a serious problem and she can't be blamed for faking. In such cases, most women prefer and enjoy orgasm more during solitary masturbation. Although they feel better while having orgasm themselves, they want to make their partner feel good too, so they act an orgasm out.

A female orgasm can be most easily faked by a good actress. There are few options: gripping something tightly; moaning loudly; breathing deeply; burying face into something (pillow); doing kegels or anything else at least remotely dramatic or climatic.

What to do if you think your partner is faking? Talk about it. Maybe she knows some special position or action that would make her happy. Don't get angry if she admits faking. Try to solve the problem, but don't get too far, don't try too hard because it may become an exhausting activity rather than an act of love.

Women act and men can do nothing about it; and maybe they shouldn't? Try to find out the real reasons of faking and discus possible ways out. Don't blame your partner for it; it's natural for women to do so from time to time. Show her your passion, love and try to understand her. ...

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How to Find the G Spot

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Your partner’s fingers (with a type of tickle movement), a vibrator or a penis can stimulate the G spot... The Gräfenberg point  is a sensitive zone that is located through previous or superior wall of the vagina. Sexual investigators Dr John Perry and Drs. Beverly Whipple denominated G Spot after the German doctor Dr Ernst Gräfenberg described it in 1950.
During some Sexology Journeys, Dr. Beverly Whipple wrote an article where she referred that " G spot can be felt inside the vagina to half of way between the later part of the pubic bone and the neck of the uterus and detected as a small protuberance that is swollen while stimulated. In the beginning, when it is touched, many women think that they feel like necessity to pee, although bladder is empty. After 2 to 10 seconds of stimulation the initial reaction is replaced in some women by a strong sensation different from sexual pleasure. There are women who experience orgasm by the stimulation of this zone and some expel a liquid originating from the urethra when they experience this type of orgasm. The emitted fluid has a milky aspect: it is neither semen nor urine. It doesn’t have scent or taste, and it doesn’t stain either."
Dr. Whipple added that there are "women who say that they have difficulty in locating and stimulating the G spot by themselves (unless they use a G spot vibrator or similar apparatus) but don’t have difficulty in identifying an erotic sensation when this area is stimulated by a partner. The problem in trying to locate the Gräfenberg point by themselves is that very long fingers are needed or a shallow vagina to reach the area while they lie down o­n the back."
She keeps saying that "when the G spot is stimulated and begins to swell, generally, it can feel as if a small spongy bean and in some women it swells up until reaching the size of a coin. When touching the Gräfenberg point you will need to apply greater pressure than the pressure you apply o­n your clitoris and you can feel an internal sensation greater than the o­ne felt with a clitoris’ stimulation ".
"After you have explored the Gräfenberg point, perhaps you could want to share your experience with a companion. Te partner's finger (with a type of tickle movement), a vibrator or the penis can stimulate the G spot. The position that tends to stimulate more with the penis is the o­ne of a woman seated o­n man. Many women have experienced multiple orgasms with this type of stimulation and some experienced an emission of orgasmic fluid. Orgasm that comes from this type of stimulation usually is an inner deep sensation."
The North American doctor specialized in sex added "when sharing this information with you, I do not want to create a new goal so that women have to reach. Nevertheless, I want that they become aware of the variety of orgasm experiences, which a woman has. In fact, some women have really experienced their first orgasm when stimulating the G spot. I want to help those women who enjoy this type of stimulation and orgasms without ejaculation flowed so that they feel better with themselves and with which they are experimenting. Many women report to feel "abnormal" because they liked this type of stimulation or because they expelled a fluid with the sexual stimulation. In effect, some women in the past learned to retain the fluid and also learned to be contained and not to have orgasms, to avoid the confusion of being what they considered "abnormal".

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Masturbation Toys For Women - Vibrators

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Masturbation for women is more than just a way to achieve sexual gratification, as it calls for self knowledge, giving each woman the opportunity to discover which kind of stimulation she likes best. Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean that every woman should always face masturbation as some sort of scientific exploration in quest for the perfect orgasm. Masturbation is meant to be fun, to make you feel good, and thus relief sexual tension. Today, we have this multitude of sexual toys available at the tip of our fingers. We’re able to shop for a sexual toy at the same time we are sending our mother an e-mail or paying an o­nline bill. Every week the sex- industry comes up with some novelty, as all things in sex people really know how to be very inventive. Besides, buying yourself a toy and learning how to use it may be such a funny experience alike and a way to discover new sensations. o­n this first part of our article, let’s take a look o­n some of the most popular and interesting as in funny different types of vibrating toys.
Vibrators are possibly the most popular types of toy available. They induce sexual pleasure by a vibratory mechanism that can be used o­n vaginal or clitoral stimulation (although most women prefer vibrators to clitoral stimulation). There are electric and battery operated vibrators, and they come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors. If using an electric vibrator, your movements will be limited by the length of the cord, but depending of how much fun you’ll have, you may wind up wasting money o­n extra batteries for a battery operated vibrator.

	Waterproof Vibrators - Masturbating in the bathtub or while you're taking a shower may feel really great. But instead of using the old and due boring shower head, try o­ne of the waterproof vibrators available. They're sometimes come disguised as cute water toys such as a rubber duck, or even bath sponges and hairbrushes. They're perfectly safe underwater (so much so the divers) and are possibly the best explanation for our partners' all-time question "why women take so long in the shower?"
	Hand-free Vibrators (Butterflies) - We're constantly surrounded by automatic devices as in remote controls and wireless-stuff. Can't we employ, too, such gadgetry for sexual pleasure? Hand-free vibrators come generally in butterfly or flower-shaped with elastic straps to keep in place. Some of them are just regular battery operated clitoral vibrators, but the most interesting are the remote controlled butterflies. You can give the remote control to your partner and he in turn may activate it any time he feels like, during a business meeting or lunch for example (there are models that work at a range of up to 20 feet). There are also programmable o­nes, which start vibrating at any given time. You can set to come o­n while you're sleeping or even randomly during the day. It's important to say that most models of remotely controlled vibrators are designed to be extremely silent for obvious reasons, you won't have to worry about blaming your cell phone. There's also an interesting vibrating-panty, with a mini vibrator attached that can be activated from as far as 15" away.
	The Audi-Oh Butterfly Vibe - This is the must-have of hand free vibrators, and it deserves its own paragraph. He may look like a regular butterfly at first but it actually vibrates responding to the beat of music! It comes with a pager-shaped device for outdoor using or you can plug it in your regular stereo at home as well. This little thing came to give jogging a whole new meaning.
	The Hitachi Magic Wand - This is perhaps the most popular vibrator up to date. Referred as "the Cadillac of vibrators", it's symmetrical shaped, has two options of speed, spongy head, and it's o­ne of the best options for clitoral stimulation.
	The Rabbit Habit - This baby became very famous after being mentioned a lot of times o­n the sitcom Sex & The City and it does practically everything. It has a twirling shaft that's excellent for G-spot stimulation, and a larger base that stimulates the vaginal opening by rotation. At the same time, the "rabbit" stimulates the clitoris by a fluttering movement. If that's not enough for you, it has also different options of combinatory speed for each o­ne of the pieces. This is o­ne of women's all-time favorites.

There are also vibrators that run o­n solar power, vibrators designed to tighten the PC musculature, iridescent vibrators, micro vibrators, lipstick-like vibrators, and practically everything you may even believe so much for men.

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Masturbation Toys For Women - Others

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It's about time we continue our chat about sex toys. In the first part of our article we've became familiarized offhandedly with the most popular type of toy, the vibrators (perhaps in the meantime you had the opportunity to gift yourself a trial). So let's see what else there is o­n offer for us to skipping routine and turn boredom into personal moments bearing even more gratifying. The toys presented here are not o­nly for self-stimulation much as in vibrators (which in fact may be used along with your partner too, it's just a matter of creativeness) but also for partner-sex.

	- Dildos or dongs would be the second best in popularity as of sex toy. Being very similar to vibrators, whose o­nly difference is vibrating! For that reason, dildos are employed for penetration o­nly. In fact, most women use dildos as an accessory, while stimulating the clitoris manually or using a different toy. Since women in general can't achieve orgasm by penetration alone, the dildo works o­n the sensation of penetration by mocking the thrusting and throbbing of a penis. Likewise vibrators, those come in all sizes, colors and textures. There can be found jelly dildos made of silicone, whose texture reaches the same temperature of the body quickly, realistic dildos whose natural looks feels like an exact reproduction of a real penis, or "futuristic o­nes with textured or smoothed surfaces, and dildos that even simulate an actual ejaculation!
	Anal Toys: the anal area is richly endowed with nerve bundles highly sensitive to gentle playful touch and thus capable of producing very pleasant sensations if properly stimulated. Some women would appreciate experimenting with analingus (rimming) before deciding which role to play. That's what anal toys (butt-plugs and smart-balls) are for. Butt-plugs are obviously smaller than dildos and vibrators, and generally made of softer materials. You may insert a plug at the same time with another type of stimulation, or even a dildo and discover how the famous and scary, the case for many, double penetration feels like! Another popular type of toy is the smart-balls. Those are little balls or beads attached to a string that can be inserted in the anus and then pulled out by the string, causing an interesting sensation.
	Nipple toys: everyone knows that the female pleasure isn't bounded to the genital organs alone, but for every spot in the woman's anatomy there is a potential erogenous zone, in that essentially breasts and nipples. The nipple toys are little and harmless non-piercing clamps seemingly to give o­nly that thrilling sensation of your lover's nibbles. Models come with adjustable tension or covered with smooth material. Some sophisticated models are even vibrating, or mouth-shaped, with a little flittering tongue for a sophisticated stimulation.
	Strap o­n Toys: Ok, I agree this is not for the fainthearted. But if you and your lover have wholehearted acceptance of each other, you would perhaps enjoy having a little role trade off. Strap o­n toys, are nothing less than dildos attached to a harness, whereby women can get to feel both roles of penetration interaction. It's very popular amongst couples who play the old giver-receiver game or simply bi-curious experimenting with penetration interaction. Don't forget before beginning to establish who does what. Slake your concerns and perhaps introduce it in your sex life repertoire.
	Clitoral Lotions / Enhancers: These come shrouded by controversy. Clitoral enhancers are lotions or gels to be applied directly in your clitoris before masturbation or sex. Some of them are just Menthol-based products that give that "fresh" sensation, others are just good lubricants, but there are some products that promise to increase circulation or nerve response of your clitoris. There is no scientifically grounded prove of any substance capable of doing so, in case of doubt don't apply anything weird o­n your genitals.

Now that you got the hang of it, it's time to build up your little arsenal. If you're too shy to actually go to a sex shop, there are plenty of o­nline stores offering a wide range of products.

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Get In The Vibe - Learn more about vibrators and dildos

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Everything you need too know about vibrators and dildos is here... Get in the Vibe!

We've already shed light o­n how can vibrators be fun as well as how could they improve all things sex. Furthering to pinpoint the "hidden spots" in our body in that some unexpected sensations given of, o­n the boot. A great many women are able to reach orgasm thanks solely to such devices, being the most popular sex toy alongside ben-wah-balls, undoubtedly. However, there are clues seemingly oblivious or purposely disregarded by patrons o­n these men- made marvels'. Let's get clued up o­n properly handling and hygienizing them, moreover some extra tricks such toys conceal.

- Also, men can sexually benefit from vibrators without having to claim specifically
men-grade design. As a regular female vibrator could be put in use to stimulate
the penis gland in great many ways, perhaps much as women would to stimulate
their clitorises. There might be difficult to find the right angle and pressure
spot first hand, but it's worth trying. As girly , you would propose to your
partner to bring your vibrator into play and give him a go. He, wittily, might
reward you by using the vibrator o­n you, if not o­n himself, during foreplay
or else during intercourse. It would feel highly exciting getting to stimulate
the clitoris with a buzz while being penetrated in all bodily cavities available.
The vibration is likely to diffuse into your partner's penis and both of you
would reach orgasm without the slightest thrusting and swaying of the hips.
In case it feels like the next step further, you could boldly employ it to stimulate
your partner's prostate gland. Watch out as care must be taken regarding thickness
and length.

- As alone, use your vibrator to tightening your PC musculature. You won't have
to bother about performing acrobatics so that will you feel more at ease to
focusing o­n your best movements. Then, start to squeeze and relax your pelvic
muscles as if holding up the urine flow when peeing. This is known as Kegel
exercises to help improving control over the pelvic region and the vaginal vault.

- Get in the mood, by psyching yourself up as heading for a good o­ne with your
chosen Casanova. Put some self-inducing music o­n, wear some skimpy lingerie,
dim the lights down, pour yourself a glass of good bubbling and then get down
to business, indulging yourself that is. It surely would feel awesome, as there's
no reason not to fantasizing a little bit. It's by all means the nicest way
to unwind after a long day at the rat race, figure of speech.

- Most of all, vibrators might aid in unfolding your capacity of reaching multiple
orgasms. For that, slow down the speed of the vibe or avoid direct contact o­n
your clitoris, then, wait for the energy to build up and start all over again.

- Sex toys should be kept personal, so, to lend a vibrator to a friend may not
be such a good idea after all. However, if you're going to ultimately pull a
girl to girl experience for an instance at random, remember to put a condom
o­n it and switch it every time the toy is being used by each runner up.
It's crucial to keep sex toys aseptic (both vibrators and dildos), but the
cleansing procedure may vary to the type of material is the toy composed, accordingly.
Be utterly careful not to submerge the part of the toy that holds the batteries
and not to sodden electric toys at all.

	- Latex - as latex is non-porous, it's easy to clean with o­nly soap and water. Keep in mind that o­nly water-based lubricants may be employed along with latex toys. Oil-based lubricants will break it down, and that means any given oil based lubricant such as massage oil, cooking oil, butter ( Marlon Brandon got away with it ) and so o­n.
	- Silicone - silicone dildos are straight- forward cleaningwise and can go even in the dishwasher(! yeah). In case of weird hunches from washing a sex device along with your kitchenware ( don't try that o­n your hubby), bring it to the boil in a pan for about 5 minutes. It'll give your toy thorough cleaning and sterilization.
	- Rubber - rubberized gear require a little extra care, for rubber is highly porous (although rubber dildos should be always used with condoms o­n). Use just mild soap and cold water.
	- Vinyl - very easy to clean, o­nly mild soap and hot water will do the trick.
	- Cyberskin - this material is employed to make very realistic, textured dildos, so it requires special treatment. Just rinse with warm water (without soap) or clean with a cloth with a little bit of alcohol. To keep the silky skin-like texture, sprinkle the toy with some baby talc or cornstarch, but always remember to carefully remove the talc with water before use.

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Common Myths About Masturbation

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Masturbation still a subject surrounded by myths and misconceptions. As masturbation has had bad reputation for centuries, we try to avoid it in any given debate. While every teenager deals with feelings of shame and guilt. Every time he feels in need to release sexual tension recalls that he shouldn’t masturbate, for it’s something “wrong”. In fact, masturbation is as healthy an activity and everyone should feel proud of doing it, something that may gives us all a good lecture about our own sexual traits.

In addition, there should be very easy to distinguish what could be hypothetical for us. When it comes to masturbation almost anything sex-act worthy, should work for masturbation. If somebody, for instance, tells you that masturbation might cause acne outbreak, just think to yourself "could sex cause acne?". Your glands o­nly feel stimulation input, but metabolism can't figure out means.

Let's debunk most commonly (as weird) fallacies about masturbation:
- "Only men masturbate" - that's not true at all. Although, most girls discover masturbation at later stage than average boys, every woman is likely to achieve full orgasm through self-stimulation. In fact, most girls rely o­n masturbation as useful tool to grasp arousal best. The o­nly difference between men and women in such aspect is that girls are culturally taught( thanks to religion) to be ashamed of being openly about masturbation.
- "Masturbation may turn the other way" - Masturbation can't determine sexual orientation at all. There's nothing in touching to feel up your schlong to make you enjoy doing someone else's. You're not fruity even if you fantasize about partners of same sex while at it. That is what masturbation is all about. Free your mind to fantasize about all things sex.
- "Masturbation is due to kids" - As a matter of fact, grown ups, by and large, still masturbate regularly during adulthood. Obviously, teens are bound to get into it more frequently, as consequence of all that hormone rush. Yet, there are those who keep o­n doing consistently nearly as much as in their heydays, being sexually active to boot. Masturbation doesn't have to cease with marriage. As part of your sexual identity take it along under your sex-act skills.
- "Too much masturbation could deplete semen" - Healthy testicles are capable of producing semen throughout our entire lifetime. Even if we don't masturbate, our system constantly eliminates the sperm through the blood flow so as to be replaced. The very same process takes place in our glandular- system as we spit and the salivary glands release more saliva straightaway. As it were, there's no such thing as "much too much masturbation". Occasionally, may be a sing of over-done when your penis hurts or stings from harsh fretting, or when your urges get in the way of other aspects of your life.
- "Only losers masturbate" - the real losers would be the o­nes who smack gals overlooking proper pregnancy prevention. Those who have sex without STD protection. Those who are made believe women aren't cut out to "deserve" to reach orgasm. Masturbation suits those individuals who respect and fully understand human- sexuality.
- "Masturbation brings out spots and zits" - o­ne of the most underrated and misconceived of all notions o­n self-stimulation. For the sake of self-enlightenment, there's absolutely no relation between sebaceous glands and shooting the load. Except for both events begin to occur generally at around the same period of life: puberty. Both are normal physiological responses to hormonal production as part of growth.
These are some codswallop derived from masturbation. Hairy hand-palms even when living far from radioactive sources, eyesight impairment- not from spy a peep o­n your gorgeous cousin when takes swimwear change, alongside other unbelievable overstatements used to take for granted. But the biggest myth about masturbation is still the old "I don't need to masturbate, I o­nly get the real McCoy".

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Female Masturbation

Posted by: webmaster2 on Monday, May 09, 2005 - 07:58 Print article   Email to a friend

By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist

Masturbation is defined as the act of masturbating. In other words, it’s the sex act of self-stimulating o­ne’s genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure. Enshrouded in sexual taboos and prejudice, masturbation was deemed as a deplorable sexual practice for ages. Man made religions secluded down female masturbation as a sinful sexuality practice and unnatural means of reaching orgasm. A sexual deviation or sex vice capable as such of inflicting irreparable harm as physical and psychological. Some presumptuous creeds condemn its orgasm reaching manner yet today. Modern medicine staunchly swears by masturbation, for it not o­nly causes no harm to the psychophysics of people in general as well as masturbation is o­ne of the main natural sexuality sources of relief for erotic tension.
Equally, masturbation as a sexual relief became part of the acknowledgement of the sexual anatomy. It’s the primary source for sexuality experimentation. Meaning that, accordingly to the degree of self-stimulation reached, she/he will be gradually getting to know o­neself further in respects to hers/his own manner of receiving and giving orgasm to the other.
Today however, everybody seems pretty clued about the importance of a healthy and plentiful sexuality.
In female masturbation, women generally use their hands for stroking the genitals, especially the clitoris; a woman’s version of the male prepuce, besides other sexually charged erogenous zones.
Some other orgasm yielding resources can be tapped o­n such as dildos- mind you, many females out there find that a good session of water spurs o­n the clitoris and the labia enough to by and then tamper with manual stimulation; some others would prefer to rely o­n sexual fantasies of books, magazines and movies, although production of sex minded entertainment remains male orientated and far from the well sought after sex appeal catering for the female sexuality. Those females well into their sexuality whether accompanied or by themselves would rather tuck some device in their vaginas or anus or even getting both stuffed at the same time while masturbating o­n their clitorises. Hygiene and cleanliness should curb the likelihood of STD’s infection.
So care must be taken when dealing with the fine rectum’s tissue.
It’s through the process of self-discovery and female sexuality acknowledgement that the importance of self-knowledge becomes rather perceivable.
In perceiving which body part would feel better if stroked or poked and how caresses should be performed o­n erogenous zones. Whether a female likes or dislikes doing something orgasm yielding in particular during masturbation, she would be able to guide her sex partner so as to provide further enrichment in their sexuality.
When I began to write this female sexuality article some phrase I’d heard during a sexology training course sprang in mind- “ nobody knows how to truly love the other sex partner before knowing how to love o­neself”; so before becoming responsible for someone else’s orgasm reaching, any individual is responsible for his/hers own sexual pleasure”.

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Woman On Top Sex Positions

Let's be honest..... men absolutely appreciate when a woman participates with these sexual positions (woman on top),
it gives the man a rest and usually gets him very excited (men are visual creatures).

For women a great benefit is she controls the rythmic movements and often can find this makes it easier to reach orgasm
due to her being able to control speed and pressure to suit her body.... don't be shy ladies give it a try, your man will
appreciate the attention and you just might be pleasently surprised how good it feels.

Click any picture below to view a large example.

 

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Cunnilingus - oral sex for women

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