Infantile and Young Masturbation

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Female Masturbation
Get information about Infantile masturbation, doubts and answers...
  • What is it?
  • What is the cause?
  • When they will stop doing it?
  • What happens if a child masturbates?
  • What can I do, as a father?
  • When should I go to the pediatrician?


What is it?
Masturbation is an auto-stimulation of genitals for pleasure. It is something more than a normal examination of genitals in bath that moves almost all kids. It can begin since children are able to hold objects (towards 5 o r 6 months) and it’s very frequent during the 2 years of age. Masturbation is a normal activity and frequent among kids. It can be practiced at any age, but is rare before the 6 months of age. The very young children rub their thighs against each other, with rhythmic movements of the hips while lying facing down or moving hands or knees when lying o­n their backs. Later o­n they can learn to rub against a doll, the arm of a couch, etc. The rhythmic manipulation of genitals with hands usually doesn’t take place before the 2 and a half years of age. The frequency at which a child masturbates may vary, for example, it can be several times in a day or o­nce a week, but it is more frequently when she/he goes to sleep, is bored, watches television or if a kid is suffering some kind of stress. In any case, during masturbation a child may seem as if absorbed in thought, feeling warm and sweating, with rhythmic movements of the head or extremities and when done, can be exhausted, which in some cases may have a wrong diagnose of an epileptic attack.
What is the cause?
A sporadic masturbation in pre-students is a normal conduct. As far as a third of children of this age discover masturbation while they explore their body. The majority continue masturbating simply because they like, although some can do it in a frequent way if they have some problem or if s/he is punished or suffer a pressure not to do it anymore.
There are no medical causes. An irritation of the genital area can produce pain and inflammation, but it is more probable to be a consequence and nor a cause of masturbation.
When they will stop doing it?
Once a kid discovers that masturbation provides him/her pleasure, you can’t expect that they will give up doing it right away. Besides, if a child is not rebuked s/he will do it o­n private. At around 5 or 6 years of age, probably its frequency would diminish or, at least, that he/she does it in a more reserved manner. Later, in adolescence, masturbation is almost universal, in relation to hormonal changes and the beginning of the sexual desire.
What happens if a child masturbates?
Aside from the pleasure that it provides to him/her, nothing at all. It won’t provoke any corporal or psychological damage. If a child masturbates, this won’t disturb his/her sexual orientation; neither is going to turn them promiscuous and, of course, does not have any relation to epilepsy.
What can I do, as a father?
If we consider that almost all children masturbate sooner or later and that they do because they really like, you should do nothing, except for leaving them tranquil. It is convenient to make sure that although the parents try to make them stop doing it, they are not going to have an immediate success. So parents should accept it, as it is a normal situation. Reprimands, punishments, etc. can have a negative effect, because they can reinforce this conduct.
If you think that masturbation can have a relation with boredom, you can try to keep him/her occupied with activities that are attractive to them. Probably, you have to be more tolerant when masturbation takes place at rest moments: during afternoon nap or when going to sleep at night. If what worries you is that they do it in front of other people, you can recommend to him/her to do it in his/her bedroom or during bath. If she/he does in public places, like in school, it’s convenient to comment to the teachers so that they can try to keep their attention over in class and avoid scold him/her in public.
When should I go to the pediatrician?
In rare occasions, masturbation is related to stress situations, even sexual abuses from adults. In those cases, you have no doubts in consulting his/her pediatrician or nurse.
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Female Masturbation Techniques

Posted by: webmaster on Thursday, July 08, 2004 - 10:47 Email to a friend Send this story to a friend
Female Masturbation
The following o­nes are masturbation methods which women informed they use in the book Hite Report of Shere Hite...


Female Masturbation Techniques
The following are masturbation methods that women informed they use in the book Hite Report of Shere Hite. The data were gathered between 1972 and 1976. Whereas methods had probably not changed, a number of women who use an individual technique could have done it, because attitude of women towards themselves and their bodies has changed in time.
In addition, women today have a much more easy access to sexual aids like vibrators and dildos than they had twenty years ago.
Description of methods can help to lead women in the process to learn how to masturbate themselves, and those women whom want to explore new ways to reach orgasm during sex in solitaire.
Also, it can help women who feel that they are unique, for they masturbate in an unusual way, and about this little is spoken, so that they feel "normal." In any case we see extreme diversity of techniques.
Illustration by Mia Jennings 



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Type 1A, Indirect Clitoral Stimulation:
"For me it is important to be excited mentally or to have fantasies to masturbate. For me, it is also important to be single. I use the pulps of the fingers for a real stimulation, but it is better to begin lightly with taps or rubbing o­n the area in general. When excitation increases I start by stimulating myself o­n the clitoris and finally I reach climax with a stooping fast movement o­n the clitoral hood. Usually my legs are separated, and o­nce in a while I also stimulate my nipples with the other hand."
"If I am worried (pressed by time) I'd use a vibrator o­n the base of the clitoris, with open legs. But I usually use my fingers by rubbing around the base of my clitoris, and when I am near orgasm, I move my fingers in a circular way upon my clitoris. My legs are always separated, and I'm alternating hands since o­ne gets tired. My other hand caresses my breasts or it simply rests. And I move my body more when I have an orgasm."
"Wow! What a question! Usually I lie down o­n my back, with legs wide apart. I leave o­n my underclothes almost always, because it bothers me to rub my clitoris directly. I use a hand, two fingers together, rubbing upwards and downwards just touching upon my clitoris. When I am near climax, my legs tend to open themselves and my pelvis rises more. I do not move much, but sometimes during climax I sway from side to side."
"I use my hands and my imagination, and it is likely that I have tried all imaginable positions and movements - the basic stimulation remains the same o­ne. I use my finger to stimulate clitoris, sometimes inserting another finger in my vagina at the same time. When masturbating I touch o­nly my genital area, because it does not stimulate all my body by touching, as it happens when my pair touches every part of me."
"I stimulate my clitoris o­n both sides with my legs opened, and I do not move any other part of my body. It is as if it allowed very efficient masturbation without fault, because any other thing (to touch every part o­n my body, etc.) would be sickly."
"When masturbating I think about stimulating things locally to me, soon a brief touch of my fingers and finished. Yes! Furtive, no "
" I employ a simple vibrator with batteries. Usually, I place it straight alongside my clitoris, using a slight circular movement. Beginning with my opened legs, but they usually closed involuntarily. I think that what happens in my mind (with which I have fantasies) is really more important than the mechanical aspects."

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Type 1A, Direct Clitoral Stimulation:
"I use my middle finger, dampened, to stimulate and rub above and around my clitoris. My other hand throws the lips backwards, maintaining a weak tension o­n the clitoral area. Alternating fast clitoral rubbing with more slowly rubbing o­n the vagina entrance. (Actually, 'rub' is a hardly correct word, because it is a very tender touch until just before orgasm, for when I am very dunked.) My legs are very open, my knees raised - I do not move my torso much until orgasm, when I feel strong spasms in my torso and pelvis."
"I masturbate o­nly with a hand - mainly around the head of my clitoris, soon I am gradually revolving o­n the head - always rubbing with forward and backward movements. My other hand helps to hold the skin to gain a firm contact. I have my legs together and separated, alternatively."
"I lie down o­n my back with my legs really closed. I use my left hand to hold apart my genitals, and then I can use my right hand to touch my clitoris. I use a circular movement beginning slowly with a slight pressure, and then increase pressure until I begin to come. Shortly, I slow down according to the sensation I desire until reaching orgasm. If I wish to come again I take another turn."
"I masturbate with an electrical toothbrush. I place a damp towel o­n a brush and lubricate my clitoris with lotion. I lie down o­n my back with my legs open. With my left hand, I open the lips to expose the clitoris, keep the vibrator with my right hand and smoothly press o­n my clitoris. Sometimes I move it upwards and downwards, and sometimes I leave it o­n a fixed point, depending o­n which o­ne feels best. But actually, I never get excited until I begin to fantasize. I do not move my hips. All action is done with hands/vibrator and my clitoris."
"I o­nly use my fingers. My left hand keeps the greater lips of my vagina open (vulva) and my forefinger and the second right finger rub right aside of my clitoris. Sometimes I rub upwards and downwards, but I usually rub with slow circular movements. My legs are closed, stretched and straight. Sometimes I do this lay down o­n my belly, but not usually. It is much more difficult - I mainly do that after I've been masturbating for some time but I'm still excited. I do not move much, as oppose to when I reach orgasm with a partner, and I also make less noise."

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Type 1A1, Clitoris Stimulation and Occasional Vaginal Penetration:
" I usually masturbate by stimulating the clitoral region smoothly and that is not directly, but o­n the skin above and around; later I place my fingers around the clitoris and I move them back and forth rhythmically and with light pressure. Thus, to obtain orgasm, pressure is o­ne factor, rhythmical movement another, and protect the clitoris of direct stimulation is another o­ne. This last o­ne is carried out using the skin around to stimulate the clitoris. Finally, tensioning my anus and concentrating in having an orgasm. Every now and then I put my finger in my vagina because it seems to stabilize the clitoris and it's a little exciting. My legs are open. I do not move much."
" Usually I begin in rubbing my clitoris in o­ne of its flanks, with my finger. Sometimes I use a mirror and observe - before I used to stare in front of a great mirror. Soon, because my finger really does not ignite much to me, I take out a vibrator. From time to time I read pornography, sometimes I fantasize. Sometimes I catch children oil and I rub my breasts and my belly. I move the vibrator downwards and upwards and throughout the crack between my legs. Usually a leg is with a knee up; the other opened, in bed. I move the inferior part of my body downwards until finding a movement of the vibrator. Sometimes, I use my fingers and I moist my breast and I o­nly touch and fondle it. Even putting and removing the vibrator from my vagina, like screwing."
"My first masturbation was with bathtub water, and later with my hand, that is as I still do it. I use the middle finger of my right hand in vigorous upward and downward movements, which accelerates me more towards climax. Sometimes I put a finger deeply in my vagina with my thumb maintaining contact with the clitoris. Recently, since I read literature, I have proven contract my vaginal muscles, and this seems to improve the act. Sometimes I push all my body upwards, moving with my feet underneath my back part, finishing with my chest, torso and sexual area pushing upwards facing the sky. My greater liberation is with my legs pushing outwards to give the sensation of the greatest possible opening. o­nce I proved a cucumber, and also a vibrator, but that gave me a sensation to be a little outside me -it, was not me, that is."

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Type 1A2,Clitoris Stimulation and Vaginal Penetration Always:
"I put a finger o­n my clitoris and with the other I pull a bottle inside and outside of my vagina (a plastic bottle.) At the beginning I keep my legs open until I reach an orgasm, and then I put them together. First of, I rub my clitoris and soon insert a bottle. When I come I close my legs with the bottle inside me as far as it can get."
"At first I use my fingers to penetrate my vagina, to augment the sensation in all the area, but after to reach orgasm I rub my clitoris first slightly and after more firmly with circular movements upward and downward. With my other hand (left hand) I am generally turning pages from a pornographic book that I am reading. Yes, it is complicated. Since I keep legs open."
"First, I fantasize until lubricating myself. Often I get annoyed and hold back my touch until I am very excited. Sometimes I rub all my body against bed, being laid down o­n my belly, and o­nce in a while I have it off that way, but mostly I am o­n my back. First, I caress the greater lips, and after in and around the clitoris, using a circular movement, after that I insert a finger in my vagina, while I am laying down o­n my back or side, and move it. I can come very quick if my legs are together, but it's a better off orgasm when my legs are opened and a more horn like work for me."
"I begin with manual stimulation o­n my clitoris. Shortly, simultaneous stimulation of clitoris and vagina. I may use my finger/fingers (fore and second or o­nly fore) of other hand for vaginal stimulation. From time to time I use an object - usually the handle of my hairbrush, that is pleasantly cleared and smooth (none dildo with edge for me, thanks) for vaginal stimulation. I don't wish to mention that I use another thing more than my hand. Among all my friends it seems that there's a tacit taboo against all unnatural things. I do not have fetish devices. I am not going to hurt myself either. It is o­nly more comfortable - it is difficult to reach within my own vagina. My wrist gets tired, especially if I want to come. Also, I suppose that finding the need in vaginal stimulation old-fashioned, therefore I am also a little sensitive for that reason."

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Stimulation of Clitoris with Vaginal Penetration in Orgasm:
"When I was young, I used to masturbate keeping both hands between my very close legs and very smoothly swinging all my body. Now, I usually use my fingers to rub all the genital area with a circular movement. Occasionally, I put o­ne or two fingers inside my vagina before the orgasm to feel its contractions."
"Just after climax I put a couple of fingers inside the entrance of my vagina to feel the contractions - not o­nly to see if it happens, sexually it is very pleasant."

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Palm o­n Clitoris, Fingers within Vagina:
"I keep the palm of my hand o­n the clitoral area, and fingers inserted in my vagina approximately o­ne inch (2,5cm) roughly, and o­nly massage it tenderly."
"I begin by caressing the vaginal opening, after I insert two fingers in my vagina and stimulate my clitoris with the palm of my hand with very fast taps. My legs are together."
"I use o­ne hand and I hold the mount, I rub o­n with my hand until feeling a hot sensation, then with a finger I open my lips, and make it moist moving up and down, so then I insert a finger in my vagina and I move it up and down very fast while the palm rubs mount. My legs are totally opened."
"I caress my nipples to begin with and watch pornography. After that massage smoothly my mount until being totally excited, and then insert my fingers in the vagina and at the same time rubbing my clitoris with my palm. Eventually, I suck o­n a rubber penis."

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Type 1A, Clitoral Stimulation and Anal Penetration:
"After having certain sexy thoughts I feel that my sanguineous pressure increases and my heart beats get faster and stronger, instantaneously. My clitoris tickles and in a few seconds my vagina is moist. I rub my clitoris with my left forefinger. I penetrate my vagina and/or rectum with the forefinger and/or middle of my right hand and move them inside and outside at a speed that feels right. My genitals reach two or three levels of tickle intensity - each stage more than the previous o­ne. I rub my clitoris with a backward and forward movement. Sometimes, I employ homemade devices that have a penis form, for penetration."
" I masturbate in a dim lit bedroom. At times I get to read erotic literature, specially oriented towards anal. I stimulate myself with lubricated fingers, a vaginal applicator of foam, a shower or o­ne end enema. I usually make circular movements o­n my pubic area with a hand and touch my anus with the other hand, sometimes inserting my finger or another device in my rectum. It does not matter if my legs are together or separated. I move very little."
"Occasionally, I use my fingers o­n my clitoris with o­ne inside my vagina, and o­ne o­n the anal or the clitoral area. Usually I use two sizes of vibrators - a small o­ne for my anus and a bigger o­ne for my vagina. o­ne hand I use for the clitoris, other keeps both vibrators in place. Legs are usually separated. Circular Movements."

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Type 1B, Clitoral and Vulva Stimulation:
"Put this. I use my feminine electrical depilatory to masturbate. I rub upwards, downwards and towards flanks and usually use the other hand at the same time to stimulate the edge of my vagina."
"I use mainly my fingers. Beginning by smoothly caressing my genital area and breasts, and genital organs. Sometimes I use two hands o­n my genitals, but not always. I wait until feeling dunked before touching myself, because if I am not dunked I usually have difficulties in obtaining orgasm. So as I rub and smoothly stimulate my genital organs I raise my legs (completely separated), and then rub a little more vigorously - all this leads me to an orgasm or orgasms. It seems necessary to elevate my legs or I do not come. Frequently, I ask myself if other women are similar."

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Type 2A, Clitoral Stimulation Lay down o­n Belly:
"I use my forefinger. I lean o­n my belly and hug a pillow with my other hand. I use an up-down circular movement o­n my clitoris and usually I maintain my legs a little separated, but when I'm near orgasm, I put them well together. Sometimes I move more and at other times o­nly a little."
"I mainly masturbate o­n my belly and use my right hand to stimulate my clitoris with a strong up-down movement, using my middle fingers, index and annul. My left hand caresses my breasts. I move more in circular movements up and down. I do much Hum Humming and I say F*** me. Keeping my legs open at the beginning and when feeling near to reach orgasm I close my legs and raise my body off the floor, bed, whatever. Sometimes I masturbate holding still and use the same movement and move o­nly a little. Occasionally I masturbate laid down o­n my back and I find difficult to achieve orgasm that way."
"When masturbating, I lie down o­n my belly with my legs slightly apart, using both hands, knuckles of right hand give direct pressure to the mount, with left hand I add more pressure o­n the right hand. Moderately fast to and fro movements provide the clitoral friction that I need."
"Sequence: I place a towel o­n the bed, I put a vibrator o­n the towel with pointed pulsar (pulsar has a rubber end of 1-inch -2,5 cm of diameter). Usually I dampen pulsar before starting. Then I lie down completely immovable o­n my belly with my arms and legs doing an ample V, with the pulsar working o­n the mount area. I don't use my hands until orgasm draws near, then I move the vibrator with my left hand slightly so that it is exactly in the correct place. Just before orgasm, my hands and arms are placed straight and my hands rise upwards just a little bit before I move left to manipulate the vibrator at the critical moment."
"I masturbate o­n my belly with my right hand between my legs and I make a smooth and circular massage o­n my clitoris. I rarely touch my breasts or the rest my body because I have found that it physically does very little to me."

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Type 2 A1, Laid down o­n Belly with Occasional Vaginal Penetration:
"I masturbate o­n my belly with legs together, pressing with fingers of both hands o­n my clitoris (forefingers and middle), o­ne o­n top of another. Sometimes I caress my breasts or cheeks of the buttocks with a hand, or I insert my fingers in my vagina, but not usually. I move much less than o­n sexual intercourse."
"I am leaning o­n my belly with a pillow between my legs, or rubbing against pillow or also using my fingers. My body is hard and straight when rubbing my clitoris with a circular movement. My other hand is o­n my nipple, squeezing it, and sometimes I have a vibrator o­n my vagina or my buttock. Legs vary."

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Type 2A 2, Laid down o­n Belly with Vaginal Penetration:
"I lean o­n belly with my legs as about wide opened as possible and place three pillows underneath to lift my back. I massage my body o­n the genitals and insert the middle finger of a hand in my vagina and I press my other hand hard against it, o­n my clitoral region. This way I can strongly stimulate both, my clitoris and my cervix (which is often sensitive but not as much as the clitoris). My breathing becomes short and gasp and my body begins to move and contract violently, when lowering my body o­n my finger and hand behind. I have tried to use two or three fingers, but this had the disadvantage that it couldn't be extended as much as a single finger."
"I use my hands, beginning with a general massage to warm up my hands and my body. After, I get down to my crotch and slowly apply pressure with the ends of four fingers, then I get back o­n my belly. Start to apply circular movements with two fingers o­n my clitoris and occasionally an upward and downward movement with my clitoris between my fingers. With my right hand I verify that my vagina is moist, and fantasize. I carry o­n stimulating my clitoris with the left hand, and then insert two fingers in my vagina. I love folds and cracks. Feeling the interior of your vagina is amazing. I may also stimulate by opening the urethra, but that can be painful. My legs are usually closed, but I open them now and again. If I have not reached orgasm, then I'd flex all my leg muscles and buttocks, and so begin to move all my body upwards and downwards, or perhaps o­nly move my hands. Often, I enjoy having my buttocks outside the blankets - the fresh air stimulates it or perhaps it is a desire to expose it, I cannot really say what it is. Anyway, to lay down o­n my belly really improves my ability to insert fingers deeply in my vagina."


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Type 2B, Clitoral /Vulvae Stimulation Lay down o­n Belly:
"On my belly with both hands digging them in my external genital area, with the vulva lips closed. Jam the area smoothly with a finger, pressing against the lips outer curve and with the palm of my hand tightening against the front of the pubic bone. Legs remain closed. I have been doing this every day since I was four or five years old. When my pair is around he simply lean o­n my back and helps me to tighten."
"I use the back plastic part, not the quilted part, of a small vibrator. I prefer this because at very rare times I have lapse periods of time alone to use manual methods, the o­nes I encounter are too slow, nothing interesting and they cause fatigue. Somehow I keep the vibrator more or less stable underneath me when being face down, and move my body above and around it. I use it exclusively against my clitoris and vaginal lips. I like my legs together. This way, with my crossed ankles, I can use my legs to control the amount of contact with the vibrator. Sometimes I move fast, sometimes very slow. The more excited I am, the more I move."
"I lie down o­n my belly with a pillow between my legs and something bulky in the middle placed at my waist line. My hands are underneath the pillow right under the clitoral region, and ridding the pillow rhythmically. Then I put the vibrator o­n my clitoris, and while it remains off, I rub against it for time being, until I am so horny that I must start it, by the time that my left hand stops or plays with my clitoris or my vaginal area. Anyway its mere presence is erotic. It is vital that my right hand avoids trembling too much (the reason for pillow). Sometimes the vibrator aims towards left, sometimes towards the anus. My legs are fastening together, and fantasize. Sometimes I give vibrator taps o­n of special way."

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Type 2B1, Clitoral /Vulvae Stimulation Lay down o­n Belly with Penetration:
"I place the vibrator o­n my clitoris and smaller lips and vaginal entrance, sometimes a candle in my vagina. With legs together is more comfortable, specially with crossed ankles (it increases muscular tension and it fulfill a reflected desire to bend my knees.) I used to touch myself o­n the breasts and belly, but it seemed redundant. I moved my hands more and more."

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Type 3, pushing a Pillow or another Smooth Object:
"When masturbating, I am usually lay o­n bed facing down, with some blanket folded, so there is a bulk that I rub o­n backward and forward."
"I lie down firmly o­n belly with something kept between my thighs and pressing against all the mount area, then I move swiftly until orgasm."
"Yes, I enjoy masturbation. I have been masturbating from childhood and I do not see a reason to let go o­n it. Nevertheless, I prefer couple intercourse because I like companionship. I always reach orgasm and usually several of them, depending o­n the mood I am in. I masturbate since I didn't listen much to anybody. I make a bulk with bed clothes of the size similar of a fist (I use the head of my poor plush man, but since I'm already too big to sleep with a doll, a sheet roll is sufficient) and then I lie down o­n my belly upon it so that my clitoris exerts pressure o­n it. Then I move my hips in a circular movement until I achieve climax - very simple. It works with open or closed legs - anyway, however when in a particularly frantic state, I'd fell well with legs together. Usually I finish with my weight o­n my knees and elbows, so that I'm unable to move my hands too much."
"With crossed legs, I push my pelvis against a smooth object (a pillow is the next best thing) and fantasize. This is a real efficient method. I enjoy touching myself, but it isn't as good as that. I really move very slow; o­nly when I am ready for the orgasm I get into real action."
"Masturbation: commonly ' I ride a pillow, or a coiled night- rob or a laundry pile - I ride it like a horse, pressing and raising repeatedly - pressing hard more and more. Dressed or undressed."

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Type 3, Pushing a Pillow or another Smooth Object with Vaginal Penetration:
"Laying down o­n my belly with something small (like a Tampon) in my vagina and a pillow held tight between my legs, I move slowly upwards and downwards, then steady fast and intense. The sequence is as follow - I insert an object, I climb o­n the pillow, after that I move rhythmically until orgasm."

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Type 3, Pushing against an Object while It has been suspended:
"I put myself o­n a chair with a protuberant but low flank and rub at start against it, then I get o­n top of it, and push downwards. This method allows much freedom of my body's movements that is what I want. I learned it as a girl while playing o­n a chair that my mother had."
"I climb o­n slowly against the washbasin of the bath, and press my mount against it very hard. The washbasin is stimulating for it is cold. Sometimes, I bend my legs to press tighter, and sometimes sway them to make my vulva tremble."
"I usually hold o­n to some piece of furniture and I rub against it in a slow, circular movement, upwards and downwards. I never heard of it before, and I do not know from where I got it, but in an early age it gave me such an incredible orgasm, or several. It is a great way, but, it sure leaves calluses in the palms of your hands."

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Type 4, Crossing Legs and Tightening Pelvic Thighs and Muscles:
"I lie down o­n my back, with legs together, and I move slow until just before coming; then I am very tense, pressing the interior of my vagina, slowly moving. But it is the clitoral stimulation and inside tension that makes me come. All the pelvic area and the cheeks of my buttock are strongly tight, altogether."
" I masturbate by rubbing my thighs against o­ne another, usually laying down, but I may do it seating as well (in an office, o­n a bus, etc.) I rub them rhythmically, putting a subtle pressure o­n the clitoris. Tension is accumulated gradually until orgasm."
"I lie down in bed, my ankles together, rhythmically squeeze my thighs, fantasize and sometimes I touch my nipples if I have difficulty in reaching orgasm by squeezing thighs solely."
"I cross my legs bend - that is to say, I cross them and I put an ankle over the other leg, which creates a pressure o­n the clitoral area. I never use my hands or touch myself - I do not have to do it. I press my legs until reaching orgasm, moving o­nly slightly. I have very easy orgasms."
"I lie down (mainly when I bathe) and cross my legs; I caress my breasts and I swiftly swaying upwards and downwards pressing tight to stimulate. I squeeze my breasts tight and then I have orgasm."

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Type 4, With Pillow, Towel, or Another Device Kept between Legs:
"Initially, I stimulate myself with external things or I tell myself stories or fantasize, lately I lie down and place my right arm through my crotch with my wrist or forearm o­n my lips and clitoris (I can be dressed or undresses) and my hand o­n my ankle or knees, and my thighs o­n my arm. My left hand can lay still (if I lie down lengthwise), or can play with my nipples. I swing my hips or pelvis to rub myself. Occasionally I use my fingers or hand o­n my lips, o­n my clitoris, or above my vagina (vulva)"
"I fold a blanket or sheet, I place part of it between my legs that are closely tighten, and then rub the sheet inside and o­n my vulva, specially my clitoris, without using hands, o­nly hip and legs movements. I begin to fantasize a particular situation and come in minutes."
"My legs are crossed when pressing strongly some object that touches my clitoris and the entrance of my vagina - like any object roughly similar. Usually I keep it outside my underclothes. I rarely use my hands; I o­nly press the highest part of my thighs against lips. My masturbation is basically the positioning of objects and the sway of the pelvic zone, with the pressure o­n the superior part of my thighs against lips."

"When masturbating, I usually press my legs tight (or I cross o­ne over the other) and I use a towel, sliding it against my clitoris rhythmically until I come."
"I use a pillow or some other object that is firm but smooth. I keep it between my legs and rub it up and down or I squeeze my thighs. I can get some direct stimulation from rubbing my fingers o­n my genitals, but I cannot touch my clitoris, for it is very sensitive. In fact, I am better off wearing underclothes; thus I do not get stimulated so straightforward. My legs should be embraced a pillow, cannot be apart. I move fast but I do not enjoy too fast, then I prefer it outside the blanket, with my buttocks and feet mainly exposed."

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Type 5, Water Massage:
"I masturbate with douche solely. I aim it at my clitoris, with legs open. Sometimes I grab a hose and I sit o­n the edge of the bathtub, and use warm and pleasant water. Or I lie down o­n the bathtub, and I let the douche water hit my clitoris if it is intense enough."
"I lie down o­n the bathtub with an abundant water spurt o­n my vagina, mount and clitoris. As water pressure and temperature increases, faster I reach orgasm."
" I catch the upper-part of my douche and let come out a warm spurt. I open the lips of my vagina exposing my clitoris. The water can be lukewarm for greater stimulation, and hips may sway swiftly to excite me and prolong pleasure. Usually I do it standing up. Being laid down is more pleasant, but you get your hair and face wet. This orgasm surpasses all for me, and might be multiple."
"I masturbate with water, preferably a spurt of intense lukewarm water, thus my buttock does not obstruct drainage. My feet are placed apart o­n the floor, with a stance around two feet (about 60 cm.), and I am lying o­n my back."
"Occasionally I have an orgasm in the bathtub. First I get aroused with my fingers, then I let water run and make an acrobatic position in which my vagina is directly under the tap. Beginning with hot or cold water and low pressure o­n my clitoris. When I am excited I let water run freely and I rise more near running water and I let it strike my vagina and then I come, it's the most fantastic sensation."

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Type 6, Single Vaginal Insertion:
"I usually masturbate with a finger and I touch my breasts with the other hand, but not always. Sometimes, while I am basking in the sun in a swimsuit and start feeling horny, I'd wind up going inside to masturbate (when I am house alone). I usually use a fret movement o­n my vagina, or I simply keep my fingers there a little while. My legs are very open with my knees raised, near me. Sometimes I move fast, depending o­n the intensity of the sensations at the moment."
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How to Find the G Spot

Female Masturbation
Your partner’s fingers (with a type of tickle movement), a vibrator or a penis can stimulate the G spot... The Gräfenberg point  is a sensitive zone that is located through previous or superior wall of the vagina. Sexual investigators Dr John Perry and Drs. Beverly Whipple denominated G Spot after the German doctor Dr Ernst Gräfenberg described it in 1950.
During some Sexology Journeys, Dr. Beverly Whipple wrote an article where she referred that " G spot can be felt inside the vagina to half of way between the later part of the pubic bone and the neck of the uterus and detected as a small protuberance that is swollen while stimulated. In the beginning, when it is touched, many women think that they feel like necessity to pee, although bladder is empty. After 2 to 10 seconds of stimulation the initial reaction is replaced in some women by a strong sensation different from sexual pleasure. There are women who experience orgasm by the stimulation of this zone and some expel a liquid originating from the urethra when they experience this type of orgasm. The emitted fluid has a milky aspect: it is neither semen nor urine. It doesn’t have scent or taste, and it doesn’t stain either."
Dr. Whipple added that there are "women who say that they have difficulty in locating and stimulating the G spot by themselves (unless they use a G spot vibrator or similar apparatus) but don’t have difficulty in identifying an erotic sensation when this area is stimulated by a partner. The problem in trying to locate the Gräfenberg point by themselves is that very long fingers are needed or a shallow vagina to reach the area while they lie down o­n the back."
She keeps saying that "when the G spot is stimulated and begins to swell, generally, it can feel as if a small spongy bean and in some women it swells up until reaching the size of a coin. When touching the Gräfenberg point you will need to apply greater pressure than the pressure you apply o­n your clitoris and you can feel an internal sensation greater than the o­ne felt with a clitoris’ stimulation ".
"After you have explored the Gräfenberg point, perhaps you could want to share your experience with a companion. Te partner's finger (with a type of tickle movement), a vibrator or the penis can stimulate the G spot. The position that tends to stimulate more with the penis is the o­ne of a woman seated o­n man. Many women have experienced multiple orgasms with this type of stimulation and some experienced an emission of orgasmic fluid. Orgasm that comes from this type of stimulation usually is an inner deep sensation."
The North American doctor specialized in sex added "when sharing this information with you, I do not want to create a new goal so that women have to reach. Nevertheless, I want that they become aware of the variety of orgasm experiences, which a woman has. In fact, some women have really experienced their first orgasm when stimulating the G spot. I want to help those women who enjoy this type of stimulation and orgasms without ejaculation flowed so that they feel better with themselves and with which they are experimenting. Many women report to feel "abnormal" because they liked this type of stimulation or because they expelled a fluid with the sexual stimulation. In effect, some women in the past learned to retain the fluid and also learned to be contained and not to have orgasms, to avoid the confusion of being what they considered "abnormal".
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Masturbation Toys For Women - Vibrators

Female Masturbation
Masturbation for women is more than just a way to achieve sexual gratification, as it calls for self knowledge, giving each woman the opportunity to discover which kind of stimulation she likes best. Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean that every woman should always face masturbation as some sort of scientific exploration in quest for the perfect orgasm. Masturbation is meant to be fun, to make you feel good, and thus relief sexual tension. Today, we have this multitude of sexual toys available at the tip of our fingers. We’re able to shop for a sexual toy at the same time we are sending our mother an e-mail or paying an o­nline bill. Every week the sex- industry comes up with some novelty, as all things in sex people really know how to be very inventive. Besides, buying yourself a toy and learning how to use it may be such a funny experience alike and a way to discover new sensations. o­n this first part of our article, let’s take a look o­n some of the most popular and interesting as in funny different types of vibrating toys.
Vibrators are possibly the most popular types of toy available. They induce sexual pleasure by a vibratory mechanism that can be used o­n vaginal or clitoral stimulation (although most women prefer vibrators to clitoral stimulation). There are electric and battery operated vibrators, and they come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors. If using an electric vibrator, your movements will be limited by the length of the cord, but depending of how much fun you’ll have, you may wind up wasting money o­n extra batteries for a battery operated vibrator.







Waterproof Vibrators - Masturbating in the
bathtub or while you're taking a shower may feel really great. But instead
of using the old and due boring shower head, try o­ne of the waterproof vibrators
available. They're sometimes come disguised as cute water toys such as a
rubber duck, or even bath sponges and hairbrushes. They're perfectly safe
underwater (so much so the divers) and are possibly the best explanation
for our partners' all-time question "why women take so long in the
shower?"


Hand-free Vibrators (Butterflies)
- We're constantly surrounded by automatic
devices as in remote controls and wireless-stuff. Can't we employ, too,
such gadgetry for sexual pleasure? Hand-free vibrators come generally in
butterfly or flower-shaped with elastic straps to keep in place. Some of
them are just regular battery operated clitoral vibrators, but the most
interesting are the remote controlled butterflies. You can give the remote
control to your partner and he in turn may activate it any time he feels
like, during a business meeting or lunch for example (there are models that
work at a range of up to 20 feet). There are also programmable o­nes, which
start vibrating at any given time. You can set to come o­n while you're sleeping
or even randomly during the day. It's important to say that most models
of remotely controlled vibrators are designed to be extremely silent for
obvious reasons, you won't have to worry about blaming your cell phone.
There's also an interesting vibrating-panty, with a mini vibrator attached
that can be activated from as far as 15" away.

The Audi-Oh Butterfly Vibe - This is the
must-have of hand free vibrators, and it deserves its own paragraph. He
may look like a regular butterfly at first but it actually vibrates responding
to the beat of music! It comes with a pager-shaped device for outdoor using
or you can plug it in your regular stereo at home as well. This little thing
came to give jogging a whole new meaning.
The Hitachi Magic Wand - This is perhaps the most popular
vibrator up to date. Referred as "the Cadillac of vibrators",
it's symmetrical shaped, has two options of speed, spongy head, and it's
o­ne of the best options for clitoral stimulation.
The Rabbit Habit - This baby became very famous after
being mentioned a lot of times o­n the sitcom Sex & The City and it does
practically everything. It has a twirling shaft that's excellent for G-spot
stimulation, and a larger base that stimulates the vaginal opening by rotation.
At the same time, the "rabbit" stimulates the clitoris by a fluttering
movement. If that's not enough for you, it has also different options of
combinatory speed for each o­ne of the pieces. This is o­ne of women's all-time
favorites.
There are also vibrators that run o­n solar power, vibrators designed to tighten the PC musculature, iridescent vibrators, micro vibrators, lipstick-like vibrators, and practically everything you may even believe so much for men.

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Clitoris: A Woman’s Power Tool

Female Masturbation
By Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist

The dictionary defines the clitoris as an erectile protuberance of tissue that lies o­n the vagina’s top end. The clitoris is indeed such a small organ located o­n the upper end of the Urethral orifice in the external angle of the genitals, being the woman’s most-erogenous spot. It’s such a complex structure, that is to say, what is seen and touched being o­nly externally. Most of whose hides inside the anterior and lateral entrance of the vagina, making an arch-like shape. Consisting of around 6.000 nerve endings, glands and spongy tissues that filled up with blood, all of which render this organ highly sensitive to all kinds of stimulation.
During arousal the clitoris gets filled up with blood turning thicker, erectile and assuming an intense red-like color. Close to orgasm the clitoris retracts hiding under the hood (prepuce) coming back out as stimulation ceases. The clitoris is the female primarily source of pleasure, being exclusively pleasure functional.
Inserting the penis in the vagina and thrusting movements have been for a long time regarded as suffice for women to reach orgasm.
In overlooking such aspects some pundits sparked off in women feelings of frustration and inferiority for many generations to come. Those of whom weren’t aware of the necessity for direct manipulation in order to obtain orgasm more satisfactorily. And yet, that takes place even today, inasmuch as some women can’t reach orgasm by inserting a penis alone.
With the groundbreaking success of the Shere Hite report many question have been elucidated. By confronting thousands of female reports was verified that a woman’s ultimate orgasm doesn’t go by the coitus itself, but depends o­n special clitoral manipulations that can be attained by various manners.
The clitoris is highly sensitive, in that the direct touch isn’t always felt as sexually alluring, mainly if the woman isn’t fully aroused. To tenderly touch or make circular movements revolving the external part of the vagina and chiefly o­n its mound (highly curved arch) being essential for adequate lubrication much as sexually gratifying.
There aren’t such deep structures whether vaginal or Urethral so important as the erogenous zones. In other words, a long penis (commonly held obsession amongst men) is irrelevant in satisfying a woman. The paramount importance is to rub and touch different spots of the clitoris during intercourse. By pounding against the Mons pubis, a penis exposes in enticingly unison all the vaginal entrance to an intense rhythmically paced contact.
Clitorises come in various shapes and lengths, some well hidden and others rather conspicuous. Given the anatomical features of the clitoris there lies a classical difference, as it were, those women whose clitoris lies in the lower end might easily reach orgasm from thrusting because of the penis’ fretting against the clitoris.
Given that the women who bear the major handicap being those whose clitoris lies otherwise o­n the upper end of the vaginal entrance, for the penis can’t rub o­n it.
If that comes to be the case she should get as close as possible to his pelvis and rub her clitoris o­n it or play with herself while being pumped. Self-stimulating in front of the partner might not be so easy for some women, maybe due to shyness or self-consciousness whatsoever. It may lead women to feign orgasm, faking o­nly to prevent being tagged as dry or avoid letting their partners down.
All of which brings about frustrations in their sexual life. Failing to reach desired orgasm proves emotionally detrimental for women, since they’re cheating o­n their partners o­ne way or another.
The dialogue always bears good results. Talk to your partner about how you’d like to be touched and caressed, show where your clitoris hides, teach the exact stroke, speak your mind about positions, after all, employ a fare game and thus reap the rewards in your Sex life. Your partner will be pleased.

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Masturbation Toys For Women - Others

Female Masturbation
It's about time we continue our chat about sex toys. In the first part of our article we've became familiarized offhandedly with the most popular type of toy, the vibrators (perhaps in the meantime you had the opportunity to gift yourself a trial). So let's see what else there is o­n offer for us to skipping routine and turn boredom into personal moments bearing even more gratifying. The toys presented here are not o­nly for self-stimulation much as in vibrators (which in fact may be used along with your partner too, it's just a matter of creativeness) but also for partner-sex.



- Dildos or dongs would be the second best in popularity as of sex toy. Being very similar to vibrators, whose o­nly difference is vibrating! For that reason, dildos are employed for penetration o­nly. In fact, most women use dildos as an accessory, while stimulating the clitoris manually or using a different toy. Since women in general can't achieve orgasm by penetration alone, the dildo works o­n the sensation of penetration by mocking the thrusting and throbbing of a penis. Likewise vibrators, those come in all sizes, colors and textures. There can be found jelly dildos made of silicone, whose texture reaches the same temperature of the body quickly, realistic dildos whose natural looks feels like an exact reproduction of a real penis, or "futuristic o­nes with textured or smoothed surfaces, and dildos that even simulate an actual ejaculation!

Anal Toys:
the anal area is richly endowed with nerve bundles highly sensitive to gentle playful touch and thus capable of producing very pleasant sensations if properly stimulated. Some women would appreciate experimenting with analingus (rimming) before deciding which role to play. That's what anal toys (butt-plugs and smart-balls) are for. Butt-plugs are obviously smaller than dildos and vibrators, and generally made of softer materials. You may insert a plug at the same time with another type of stimulation, or even a dildo and discover how the famous and scary, the case for many, double penetration feels like! Another popular type of toy is the smart-balls. Those are little balls or beads attached to a string that can be inserted in the anus and then pulled out by the string, causing an interesting sensation.


Nipple toys:
everyone knows that the female pleasure isn't bounded to the genital organs alone, but for every spot in the woman's anatomy there is a potential erogenous zone, in that essentially breasts and nipples. The nipple toys are little and harmless non-piercing clamps seemingly to give o­nly that thrilling sensation of your lover's nibbles. Models come with adjustable tension or covered with smooth material. Some sophisticated models are even vibrating, or mouth-shaped, with a little flittering tongue for a sophisticated stimulation.

Strap o­n Toys:
Ok, I agree this is not for the fainthearted. But if you and your lover have wholehearted acceptance of each other, you would perhaps enjoy having a little role trade off. Strap o­n toys, are nothing less than dildos attached to a harness, whereby women can get to feel both roles of penetration interaction. It's very popular amongst couples who play the old giver-receiver game or simply bi-curious experimenting with penetration interaction. Don't forget before beginning to establish who does what. Slake your concerns and perhaps introduce it in your sex life repertoire.
 
Clitoral Lotions / Enhancers:
These come shrouded by controversy. Clitoral enhancers are lotions or gels to be applied directly in your clitoris before masturbation or sex. Some of them are just Menthol-based products that give that "fresh" sensation, others are just good lubricants, but there are some products that promise to increase circulation or nerve response of your clitoris. There is no scientifically grounded prove of any substance capable of doing so, in case of doubt don't apply anything weird o­n your genitals.
Now that you got the hang of it, it's time to build up your little arsenal. If you're too shy to actually go to a sex shop, there are plenty of o­nline stores offering a wide range of products.
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Get In The Vibe - Learn more about vibrators and dildos

Female Masturbation
Everything you need too know about vibrators and dildos is here... Get in the Vibe!





We've already shed light o­n how can vibrators be fun as well as how
could they improve all things sex. Furthering to pinpoint the "hidden
spots" in our body in that some unexpected sensations given of,
o­n the boot. A great many women are able to reach orgasm thanks solely
to such devices, being the most popular sex toy alongside ben-wah-balls,
undoubtedly. However, there are clues seemingly oblivious or purposely
disregarded by patrons o­n these men- made marvels'. Let's get clued
up o­n properly handling and hygienizing them, moreover some extra tricks
such toys conceal.
- Also, men can sexually benefit from vibrators without having to claim specifically
men-grade design. As a regular female vibrator could be put in use to stimulate
the penis gland in great many ways, perhaps much as women would to stimulate
their clitorises. There might be difficult to find the right angle and pressure
spot first hand, but it's worth trying. As girly , you would propose to your
partner to bring your vibrator into play and give him a go. He, wittily, might
reward you by using the vibrator o­n you, if not o­n himself, during foreplay
or else during intercourse. It would feel highly exciting getting to stimulate
the clitoris with a buzz while being penetrated in all bodily cavities available.
The vibration is likely to diffuse into your partner's penis and both of you
would reach orgasm without the slightest thrusting and swaying of the hips.
In case it feels like the next step further, you could boldly employ it to stimulate
your partner's prostate gland. Watch out as care must be taken regarding thickness
and length.

- As alone, use your vibrator to tightening your PC musculature. You won't have
to bother about performing acrobatics so that will you feel more at ease to
focusing o­n your best movements. Then, start to squeeze and relax your pelvic
muscles as if holding up the urine flow when peeing. This is known as Kegel
exercises
to help improving control over the pelvic region and the vaginal vault.

- Get in the mood, by psyching yourself up as heading for a good o­ne with your
chosen Casanova. Put some self-inducing music o­n, wear some skimpy lingerie,
dim the lights down, pour yourself a glass of good bubbling and then get down
to business, indulging yourself that is. It surely would feel awesome, as there's
no reason not to fantasizing a little bit. It's by all means the nicest way
to unwind after a long day at the rat race, figure of speech.

- Most of all, vibrators might aid in unfolding your capacity of reaching multiple
orgasms
. For that, slow down the speed of the vibe or avoid direct contact o­n
your clitoris, then, wait for the energy to build up and start all over again.

- Sex toys should be kept personal, so, to lend a vibrator to a friend may not
be such a good idea after all. However, if you're going to ultimately pull a
girl to girl experience for an instance at random, remember to put a condom
o­n it and switch it every time the toy is being used by each runner up.
It's crucial to keep sex toys aseptic (both vibrators and dildos), but the
cleansing procedure may vary to the type of material is the toy composed, accordingly.
Be utterly careful not to submerge the part of the toy that holds the batteries
and not to sodden electric toys at all.







- Latex - as latex is non-porous, it's easy to clean with o­nly soap
and water. Keep in mind that o­nly water-based lubricants may be employed
along with latex toys. Oil-based lubricants will break it down, and
that means any given oil based lubricant such as massage oil, cooking
oil, butter ( Marlon Brandon got away with it ) and so o­n.


- Silicone - silicone dildos are straight- forward cleaningwise and
can go even in the dishwasher(! yeah). In case of weird hunches from
washing a sex device along with your kitchenware ( don't try that o­n
your hubby), bring it to the boil in a pan for about 5 minutes. It'll
give your toy thorough cleaning and sterilization.


- Rubber - rubberized gear require a little extra care, for rubber
is highly porous (although rubber dildos should be always used with
condoms o­n). Use just mild soap and cold water.


- Vinyl - very easy to clean, o­nly mild soap and hot water will do
the trick.


- Cyberskin - this material is employed to make very realistic, textured
dildos, so it requires special treatment. Just rinse with warm water
(without soap) or clean with a cloth with a little bit of alcohol. To
keep the silky skin-like texture, sprinkle the toy with some baby talc
or cornstarch, but always remember to carefully remove the talc with
water before use.
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Common Myths About Masturbation

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Female Masturbation
Masturbation still a subject surrounded by myths and misconceptions. As masturbation has had bad reputation for centuries, we try to avoid it in any given debate. While every teenager deals with feelings of shame and guilt. Every time he feels in need to release sexual tension recalls that he shouldn’t masturbate, for it’s something “wrong”. In fact, masturbation is as healthy an activity and everyone should feel proud of doing it, something that may gives us all a good lecture about our own sexual traits.
In addition, there should be very easy to distinguish what could be hypothetical for us. When it comes to masturbation almost anything sex-act worthy, should work for masturbation. If somebody, for instance, tells you that masturbation might cause acne outbreak, just think to yourself "could sex cause acne?". Your glands o­nly feel stimulation input, but metabolism can't figure out means.
Let's debunk most commonly (as weird) fallacies about masturbation:
- "Only men masturbate" - that's not true at all. Although, most girls discover masturbation at later stage than average boys, every woman is likely to achieve full orgasm through self-stimulation. In fact, most girls rely o­n masturbation as useful tool to grasp arousal best. The o­nly difference between men and women in such aspect is that girls are culturally taught( thanks to religion) to be ashamed of being openly about masturbation.
- "Masturbation may turn the other way" - Masturbation can't determine sexual orientation at all. There's nothing in touching to feel up your schlong to make you enjoy doing someone else's. You're not fruity even if you fantasize about partners of same sex while at it. That is what masturbation is all about. Free your mind to fantasize about all things sex.
- "Masturbation is due to kids" - As a matter of fact, grown ups, by and large, still masturbate regularly during adulthood. Obviously, teens are bound to get into it more frequently, as consequence of all that hormone rush. Yet, there are those who keep o­n doing consistently nearly as much as in their heydays, being sexually active to boot. Masturbation doesn't have to cease with marriage. As part of your sexual identity take it along under your sex-act skills.
- "Too much masturbation could deplete semen" - Healthy testicles are capable of producing semen throughout our entire lifetime. Even if we don't masturbate, our system constantly eliminates the sperm through the blood flow so as to be replaced. The very same process takes place in our glandular- system as we spit and the salivary glands release more saliva straightaway. As it were, there's no such thing as "much too much masturbation". Occasionally, may be a sing of over-done when your penis hurts or stings from harsh fretting, or when your urges get in the way of other aspects of your life.
- "Only losers masturbate" - the real losers would be the o­nes who smack gals overlooking proper pregnancy prevention. Those who have sex without STD protection. Those who are made believe women aren't cut out to "deserve" to reach orgasm. Masturbation suits those individuals who respect and fully understand human- sexuality.
- "Masturbation brings out spots and zits" - o­ne of the most underrated and misconceived of all notions o­n self-stimulation. For the sake of self-enlightenment, there's absolutely no relation between sebaceous glands and shooting the load. Except for both events begin to occur generally at around the same period of life: puberty. Both are normal physiological responses to hormonal production as part of growth.
These are some codswallop derived from masturbation. Hairy hand-palms even when living far from radioactive sources, eyesight impairment- not from spy a peep o­n your gorgeous cousin when takes swimwear change, alongside other unbelievable overstatements used to take for granted. But the biggest myth about masturbation is still the old "I don't need to masturbate, I o­nly get the real McCoy".

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Female Masturbation

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Female Masturbation
By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist
Masturbation is defined as the act of masturbating. In other words, it’s the sex act of self-stimulating o­ne’s genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure. Enshrouded in sexual taboos and prejudice, masturbation was deemed as a deplorable sexual practice for ages. Man made religions secluded down female masturbation as a sinful sexuality practice and unnatural means of reaching orgasm. A sexual deviation or sex vice capable as such of inflicting irreparable harm as physical and psychological. Some presumptuous creeds condemn its orgasm reaching manner yet today. Modern medicine staunchly swears by masturbation, for it not o­nly causes no harm to the psychophysics of people in general as well as masturbation is o­ne of the main natural sexuality sources of relief for erotic tension.
Equally, masturbation as a sexual relief became part of the acknowledgement of the sexual anatomy. It’s the primary source for sexuality experimentation. Meaning that, accordingly to the degree of self-stimulation reached, she/he will be gradually getting to know o­neself further in respects to hers/his own manner of receiving and giving orgasm to the other.
Today however, everybody seems pretty clued about the importance of a healthy and plentiful sexuality.
In female masturbation, women generally use their hands for stroking the genitals, especially the clitoris; a woman’s version of the male prepuce, besides other sexually charged erogenous zones.
Some other orgasm yielding resources can be tapped o­n such as dildos- mind you, many females out there find that a good session of water spurs o­n the clitoris and the labia enough to by and then tamper with manual stimulation; some others would prefer to rely o­n sexual fantasies of books, magazines and movies, although production of sex minded entertainment remains male orientated and far from the well sought after sex appeal catering for the female sexuality. Those females well into their sexuality whether accompanied or by themselves would rather tuck some device in their vaginas or anus or even getting both stuffed at the same time while masturbating o­n their clitorises. Hygiene and cleanliness should curb the likelihood of STD’s infection.
So care must be taken when dealing with the fine rectum’s tissue.
It’s through the process of self-discovery and female sexuality acknowledgement that the importance of self-knowledge becomes rather perceivable.
In perceiving which body part would feel better if stroked or poked and how caresses should be performed o­n erogenous zones. Whether a female likes or dislikes doing something orgasm yielding in particular during masturbation, she would be able to guide her sex partner so as to provide further enrichment in their sexuality.
When I began to write this female sexuality article some phrase I’d heard during a sexology training course sprang in mind- “ nobody knows how to truly love the other sex partner before knowing how to love o­neself”; so before becoming responsible for someone else’s orgasm reaching, any individual is responsible for his/hers own sexual pleasure”.

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The Art of Female Masturbation

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Female Masturbation
By Cláudio César Dutra de Souza
Psychologist
In contrast to male masturbation, performed by the lads naturally since early stages in life, the female masturbation such sexual practice surrounded by mystery and preconceived ideas preventing the achievement of needed naturalness as the generating source of sexual pleasure and self-knowledge.
The female masturbation unlikely male masturbation might be an art-like expression, made easy and copiously boosted by plenty of erotic imagery of the media broadcast. And women, in turn, not so visual oriented like men, so then, rarely a picture of a naked man would induce orgasm-like stimuli, since specialized magazines cater for the homosexual kind that, by and large, keep the typical male-oriented voyeurism.
Masturbation is efficient as means of our own body’s acknowledgement, non-addictive and not a cause of mental confusion, as it was prior thought. In practicing masturbation, a woman may unveil “avenues and routes” that lead to pleasure pathways and would be of great value for the sexual relation in terms of making easy for partners to know as to whether or not something would give her sexual pleasure.
In overcoming bias-laden masturbation, a woman herself gains access today to an industry of erotic toys in wide range of sizes and shapes readily available, , all of which for the so-purpose of sexual pleasure, given that device aided women are few and far who reportedly reached out orgasm.
But there are other alternatives, if those sex-toys aren’t much of your liking. As far as masturbation goes, take the idyllic douche while bathing, as much as a pillow placed cunningly between legs.
Countless are the techniques for choice making comes down to each gal’s degree of eagerness. The problem consists of, in the majority of cases, debunking bigotry and beginning to play with yourself, something that, rarely takes root, as most women o­nly come to terms with masturbation after their thirties, even worst, may never come to the realization that they can have sex with themselves.’
Though, more important than techniques and methods of masturbation, which are currently made readily available at the media, it’s a change in perception in dismissing taboos that still ingrain strongly in our society. To instances taboo, women should be chaste, righteous and so, truly, sex isn’t important for them, instead of the relation itself and feelings, which are utterly important and bound to render sex more pleasurable and soothing. However, that shouldn’t seclude sexual pleasure down to partner luring and subjected to institutionalization. It’s a trap that, unfortunately many women fall for, denying themselves all that men been doing in ages, not getting mad at either, neither getting sick nor loosing their “respectability”.
Masturbation does not cause frigidity, does not induce homosexuality let alone madness. Masturbation can be performed alone or accompanied, by the two’s or the threesomes’, with or without the aid of sex devices, but fantasy overloaded.
Hence get busy o­n it, literally, and I swear that your body and your mind will be pleased by your new acquisition.

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Sex, Orgasm and Female Masturbation

Posted by: webmaster2 on Monday, June 27, 2005 - 07:45 Print article Printer friendly page  Email to a friend Send this story to a friend
Female Masturbation
By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist
It seems that women of todays are getting determined by the day to reach out their happiness, wherever it might be. For them professional success isn’t sufficient neither be a good mother and reliable wife. They want that and much more. Such quest renders women rather concern towards sexual satisfaction as well.
There can be said that the orgasm, in women, it’s the foremost sexual heighten through which occur spasms and reflex muscle contractions in the vagina. As for men, being such contractions or spasms followed by ejaculation.
Orgasm itself is just o­ne out of four phases of the human sexual response, biologically called as the phase of desire, phase of arousal-described above and phase of relaxation or resolution (system returns to basal conditions).
According to specialists, the number of women seeking aid to solve problems in the sexual sphere grows at such fast rate, and o­ne of the main complaints is Anorgasmia (absence or difficulty in reaching orgasm). Therein appear some discrepancies. There are women who never reach orgasm. Though, there are others, who never reach orgasm by penetrative sex alone, however managed reaching it alongside masturbation.
There are those with difficulty (take too long) in reaching orgasm. And yet, there’s who believes never had orgasm because never “heard bells”, “saw stars”, ‘felt like fluctuating”, and other old wives’ tales. There can be said that the last o­nes are subjective descriptions, romantic, personal, so highly varied, which translate a self-perception of sexual pleasure. There implies in saying that the human system is also a subjective perception, being alike o­nly in a biological standpoint. Therefore, if some of the so far described situations concerns to you, knowingly that you’re not the o­nly o­ne, and certainly not alone.
Many are the women who display this kind of problem in sexuality. Several are the women who gone through and still will by the very same difficulty. The first step is to seek out professional help (doctors, psychologists, sexual therapists). It’s down to the health professional to inform in a reliable manner regarding female sexuality and that complies, describing as well as demystifying the orgasm. Working o­n self-esteem build up, reclaiming personal confidence and thus sexual drive.
Tips o­n the female orgasm:
- Masturbation helps. To acknowledge own bodily functions is corner stones.
- A perfect body figure isn’t orgasm warranty. Nothing compares to the capacity of yielding and complicity of a couple.
- Stress along with unhealthy habits such as smoking, disrupter of sleeping patterns, eating habits, sedentary, all of which affect sexual performance.
- The use of legal and illegal drugs can be detrimental to libido.
- Orgasms (oral, masturbation) with no penetration are just as good.
-Faking orgasm gets in the way. Even though, there might prevent frustration, you o­nly post pone solution making to your problem. The same goes to partner swapping if the problem is she.
- Books, sites as this o­ne, movies (mainly erotica) help women getting in the mood of erotic games or sex acts if you will, utterly necessary for orgasm heightening.
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Masturbation and female orgasm

Posted by: webmaster2 on Monday, September 19, 2005 - 07:50 Print article Printer friendly page  Email to a friend Send this story to a friend
Female Masturbation
by Anne Griza
Sexologist
Before considering the female orgasm as a merely biological question, it's important that there would be thought of it as cultural and psychological question. Not so long ago, to feel pleasure was deemed sinful for women. Sex would be good only for men or for prostitutes. With the feminine liberation of the sixties', the woman could finally get the rights of feeling sexual pleasure. That can happen by biological matters and by matters of psychological rebound.
During sexual relation, a woman can induce only one orgasm or various small orgasms. The biological orgasm is though defined as a vaginal contraction during a short period and the sudden feeling of intense pleasure. However, the biological matter is secondary when it comes to female orgasms.
For a woman, the set up partner/stimulation/moment is crucial for her to reach sex climax even in masturbation. A partner is so important whether in affective terms as in performance. There are women who have difficulty in reaching orgasm when not totally affectively involved with their partners; others don't have such problem, but if a partner doesn't know how to satisfy a woman in her needs and sexual desires, a great deal of pleasure of their relation is then lost. There shouldn't be forgotten that a couple composes a sexual relation, if they aren't in harmony, one may come out less satisfied.
Stimulation is directly linked to what the partner offers, but also linked to what the woman knows of herself and the capacity that she posses of fantasizing, so much for masturbation.
Masturbation is imperative for such self-awareness, and to be able to ditch feelings that inhibit pleasure at sex time ends up by enabling the woman to let herself in for the ultimate sex pleasure, even in masturbation.
Such feelings might be of distrust in her capacity of give and take sexual pleasure, of uncertainties with regard to relation established with the partner, of low self-esteem for not being pleased with herself or her figure.
Sex is also a question of moment, though it's known that when there are problems, the person has further difficulty in reaching orgasm even if masturbating.
When there are serious problems, the woman stands a bigger chance of not even inducing sexual rapport, likely to get frustrated by failing in reaching climax, unlikely to happen in masturbation.
To fake orgasm does not yield the sensation of caresses exchange that sexual relation is as a whole, hence, doesn't satisfy the woman.
Orgasm benefits the woman physically, soothing cramps for instance, and psychologically, with lowering stress and the sensation of satisfaction by the release of adrenaline.
It's ever so growing the number of men who concerns about the woman's pleasure, once she gets sexually satisfied so is he.
Mistaken is whoever thinks that only physical pleasure satisfies a man. Knowingly that his partner is sexually satisfied pleases the man as well.
There are two types of orgasm, the clitoral and the vaginal. Freud regarded the prime as part of evolution of the woman; however, she would have to abandon this type of orgasm for the vaginal, on which point meaning the female sexual maturity. To these days and age, it's known that the vast majority of women have only clitoral orgasm and that doesn't mean immaturity. The most important thing is to feel pleasure, being sexually satisfied and being able to exchange caresses with the partner or dream of it as of masturbation.
Orgasm means delight; it's all the string of sensations and sentiments that take place during sex.
It's paramount to the woman to feel wholesome, and if it's not happening, it's good that she seeks help to come to terms with any difficulty that hampers her from taken the most out of such unique sensation and with no substitutes ever.
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